ANOTHER POV...

I want you to remember, this is America. This Nation was built on the backs of minorities, disenfranchised non-whites. Is OUR history. Our history of racism ,economic inequality, that any ethic group had to deal with at one time or another in American history. The Irish had to fight, the Italians, to name a few,had to fight when they migrated to this country in the beginning. African Americans had to fight, and have to still fight one way or another today.

                I can only speak from my point of view when I say I will never be surprised at the racism in my country. My people have recent history horror stories that never get published, but are true just the same. The teenager that got killed was a tragic incident. The man that pulled that trigger had a “reality check” in that moment and got scared, and fired, no “knuckle game”. Sad but true. Maybe the shooter had an upbringing where he was taught {money can buy whatever you want}.

 America is pre-occupied with the “right to bear arms”, and the “right to marry whom I want, what about this nation’s oldest sin of racism….

My opinion, feel free to add yours {This is America after all} …ONE LOVE

PANDORA

MOVING FORWARD....

IN MY HEAD THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MARRIAGE AND HOLY MATRIMONY
....YOU CAN MARRY WHO YOU LOVE, BY ALL MEANS.... MYSELF WILL KNOW {I THINK} THE DIFFERENCE, YOUR SPOUSE OF THE SAME SEX OR THE TRADITIONAL HUSBAND AND WIFE..YOU CAN ONLY BE A WIFE TO A HUSBAND...
.....YOUR "SPOUSE" TELLS ME THAT YOU ARE IN A COMMITTED LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER...THIS IS ENOUGH FOR ME......

LEARNING TO SWIM...AGAIN..

      I had to take the leap of faith and just jump! Milling about the safety zone, going back and forth trying to decide if I should take that leap....This was in 2005 when I went from a "Flip-Phone" to what now is known as a "Smart-Phone".
     I bought my first "Blackberry". I had to read and read to learn how to operate this device...Sat with friends and learned "new" features, like text messaging and the {txt language}. Four of five BBs later "Research In Motion" is failing..Stocks are down, Windows wants to buy it to add Windows 9 on the device. Not to mention the U.S. government do not use BBs any longer. "they" have switched to Apple iPhones.
      What does this have to do with me you ask?  I have to learn yet another device once again. I have to spend an evening reading just to know how to make a phone call to start with. Then it will be months before I will know if there is anything wrong with the phone, this is when I will master the {smartphone, device, mobile unit, cell phone}.
So, here I am today standing at that point, pacing about, wondering what to do. I have looked at several smartphone. "YouTube" everything I could. I went to the following websites...VERIZON, ATT, BOOST and T MOBILE, SAMSUNG, ANDROID, {never again SPRINT!} "that's another RANT!",GIZMODO, BOY GENIUS REPORT. Looking for a suitable match and hoping for the best.

MISS. "LOTTIE"

When I was a child, My brother and I spent a few summers leaving NYC and headed to South Carolina. Spending time with my grandparents was a experience I cherish...

           There was a woman who used come and visit with my grandparents named Miss Lottie. A strange woman to a child {me at 8 or 9 years old,and my brother 4 years my junior}. Miss Lottie wore black stockings, black jumper dress and thick black stocking tights! Every time we saw her this was her attire. Hot! not in a sexy way, just hot!
          One day she need to bring my grandfather some papers and she forgot them at her house. My brother and myself decided to be nosy and follow Miss Lottie home to fetch the papers to bring back to my grandfather. It was quite the walk, about one half mile. On a hot sunny day with nothing else to do we so off we went.
      We passed Miss Emily's house, her property, then through a large field coming to a long road then "they " met us. Miss Lottie dogs. All 15 or more of them. I froze in my tracks. My brother John had a death grip on my arm, froze as well. I knew to stand still, stand behind Miss Lottie and make no sudden moves.
     As we approached her house I was amazed how large it was. It was two story roomy house. Flowers in the garden growing wild and unattended, dogs everywhere. There was an old {really old} car in the driveway. It looked from the 1940s or 1950s . AMAZING! I thought to myself. 
      I am starting to get used to the dogs. Miss Lottie has named some of them. I am relaxing more with my brother "lightening" his grip. He starts moving around in the house looking! He is more nosy than I am at this point. I am cautious still, but nosy as well. I notice Miss Lottie's kitchen and how large it is. I would "kill" to have on like hers today! 
       Looking around in the kitchen I notice all of the canned goods on the table. There has to be at least 20 thirty cans on the table, counter tops, dinning room table. Cans every where! They are mostly dog food. To my surprise there were no cans in the cupboard.
     There so many things I remember from my childhood, from my visits with my grandparents, from that day. I am grateful. Which brings me to my point for today.
         Recently I was standing in my kitchen looking at the cans on my table, the counter tops, dinning room table, coffee table, even at the front door...thinking I have seen this "crime scene" before!
        MISS LOTTIE'S HOUSE!!!!! I have turned into Miss Lottie. The little old lady who chewed tobacco with all of those dogs. I hurried, at a break neck speed to put ALL of my groceries away! I had to put all of the clean dishes away. I put the clean Laundry away. Just because the dishes and laundry is clean, no one to "bother" me about putting things way, does not mean I shouldn't do it!
......Enjoying my life {Some days, you can call me Lottie}

THE GOLDEN GIRLS..

The Golden Girls….

I have enjoyed them for years. In the 1990’s I watched them on my days off just relaxing. Relating to Dorothy and her mom how they would “banter” back and forth reminding me of my mother and myself.  Rose and Blanche from two different schools of thought, background and upbringing. I got a laugh out of them navigating through retired life as single women. Wondering if I will have as much fun or have a similar outlook on life. I still enjoy them today. Especially when I found out they were in their 50’s!

What!!!!!

I am enjoying my life….

Who Knew!

I am a GOLDEN GURL!....

WHAT ABOUT A MARRIED DOMESTIC PARTNER?
I AM FROM A TRADITIONAL BACKGROUND WHO BELIEVES IN MARRIAGE BETWEEN ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN. IF YOU TELL ME YOU ARE MARRIED, I WILL AUTOMATICALLY THINK MALE/FEMALE. IF YOU MIGHT SAY "MARRIED DOMESTIC PARTNER" I WOULD STOP AND WAIT FOR IT......{MALE/MALE; FEMALE/FEMALE; NON-MARRIED LIFE PARTNER} WITH THE SAME COMMITMENTS...{MY OPINION} YOUR WELCOME!